I Am A Hypocrite, And So Are You


Grace CrossI am a hypocrite, and so are you.

I am a hypocrite. You are a hypocrite. No one can escape it. We all have things we hide from the world; struggles we deal with. In front of others, we tend to try to appear all put together, but inside, we know where we really stand. We know the areas God is trying to change within us, the areas we struggle hard core to become victorious in living. Here are a few things I struggle with.

You see, I know many of the truths found in the Bible, and I try to live by them. Sometimes, I let people believe I’m better at it than I actually am. I don’t purposely lie to them, I just let them believe what they believe, without setting them straight. I mean, how can I teach others to do these things and not be perfect at living them?

Here’s all I have to say about that, if you can find one preacher, teacher, mentor, mother, father, etc., that follows everything they teach perfectly (besides Jesus), let me know and I’ll just stop teaching. No one is perfect, and no one 100% of the time shows or talks about the areas they struggle with.

So, here I stand, admitting my failures. Admitting that I could be considered a hypocrite.  I hope you’ll still hang out with me. Keep reading to find out some areas I know how I should live, according to the Word of God, and still struggle to do so.

There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, who do not walk according to the flesh, but according to the Spirit. – Romans 8:1

Have you ever spent time beating yourself up over doing the opposite of what you know to do? For instance, I know it’s important to fill my mind with good things and take every thought captive. (Philippians 4:8, 2Corinthians 9:5). And yet, I’m really good at allowing negative, discontented thoughts fill my mind and stay there far too long.

  1. Thoughts
    • Ever heard the phrase, “You can’t stop a bird from landing, but you can keep it from building a nest there.” We have the ability within us to keep our mind clear of things that are detrimental to our walk with Christ. We just have to make the choice  … every single time, but do I? No. Sad to say, it’s something I struggle with. And then, my mouth opens and the words I speak don’t line up with what I know the Bible says.
  2. Words Mercies are new every morning crossToo many times to count, I have said the wrong thing, or responded the wrong way when circumstances have seemed overwhelming. It’s like, for that moment, I completely forget the things I know to be true. It does no good, however, to beat myself up for the mistakes I make. It doesn’t change it, nor does it help me to do better the next time. (Proverbs 18:21)
      • I remember a time in my life that I wouldn’t even recognize that what I said was harmful. Now it is more obvious to me when I make a mistake. Sometimes, when I’m quick to realize that my words are detrimental, I have the courage to apologize and speak a blessing, but most times, my pride gets in the way.
  3. Pride
    • Pride is merely self-centeredness, which is really the reason I have so many struggles. I care about myself too much, as most people do.
      • “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall.” – Proverbs 16:18
      • “A man’s pride will bring him low, but the humble in spirit will retain honor.” – Proverbs 29:23
    • I am on the praise team at church. I play every instrument we have on the team, except for drums, so I am very active. Basically, I move around week to week, depending on which instrumentalist needs the week off.  There are times I get offended because I feel like I shouldn’t just always be everyone’s back-up, but instead I should be considered the “number one guy” on an instrument. Even as I type this, I am realizing how silly that thought is, but regardless, I get offended because I don’t ever get to hear the words, “You’re my number one on bass guitar.” Something like that.
      • When my focus is on serving God, I don’t get offended. It’s when my mind gets focused on me and what I think I deserve, that I allow myself to get hurt.

So, there you have it. Three things I struggle to live, and am therefore a hypocrite. God is still working on me, and I know it. I’m thankful He is a God of mercy and grace, that He allows me the time I need to become closer to what He created me to be.

Who I am, in Him, is more important than how the world views me. If you want help learning, and remembering who you are in Christ, print yourself a copy of “The List“.








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